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Do you fantasize about anyone besides your SO?

I don't at all and my girlfriends tend to be 50/50 (maybe even most NOT fantasizing).

I just find it kind of funny when some women say "well everyone does" because they do. I don't think no one else does because I don't! : )

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Asked by Sara.Robyson at 4:42 PM on Jul. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • Yeah I do because stbx does not have sex with me how can it be offensive when there is no sex. LOL

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 4:44 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • no I don't....

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 4:45 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • Yeah. I prefer women to men, so when I'm DIYing it, I prefer not to picture anyone with a penis...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 4:46 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • I just don't understand why I see comments on here about how everyone does this or that.

    Not every man and/or woman
    1) fantasizes about someone other than their SO
    2) masturbates
    3) looks at porn

    That's fine that you and your SO do but don't tell me what my DH and I do. It's really offensive and obnoxious.

    Rant over. : )

    Comment by Sara.Robyson (original poster) at 4:49 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • I've been with mine for five yrs, we are not married, but do have one child together. I not only have been thinking about it, but i've been talking with another guy, although me and this other guy keep it clean, I'm having mixed feelings because he's been there for me more so lately then the guy i'm currently with, I feel I owe it to our son to try and work things out with his dad, but I dont think that I should stay with him if i'm not happy and right now, not only am I not so happy, but a bit confused. To me when one be it the woman or the man or both when in a relationship and they are thinking about other people to me that says pretty much that its time to move on and/or have a serious one on one with your current SO.

    Answer by Stacy712 at 4:49 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • I don't have a SO right now. I'm in love with Jack Bauer from 24. Not Kiefer Sutherland, Jack Bauer. :)

    Answer by kjrn79 at 4:50 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • heck, I do, and I don't care if anyone else does or not as long as I'm getting my jollys!


    Answer by ItsMe89 at 4:52 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • Yes, I sometimes dream of my ex. I would never want him back in real life but in my dreams I guess he's a nicer in my dreams.LOL

    Answer by Cindy18 at 4:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • confusedYes, I wish I was on a beach, with some quiet!!! HAHA


    Answer by sta517 at 4:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

  • No, why would I? He's all I ever need or want so I have no need to fantasize about anyone else.

    Answer by Bethsunshine at 4:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2010

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