Over a year ago a very good friend of mine stopped making time to get together with me. She would cancel plans we had or beg off of get togethers I would suggest. I stopped calling her because I got tired of the rejection. She didn't call me again for several months. She was apolojetic and I accepted undestanding that our lives are very busy and things happen. We got together again once and I went to her house once, and then she started again with the excuses. That was almost a year ago and I haven't talked to her since.
She emailed me this week asking if I was OK and that she missed me. Well I miss her too, but I am no ones doormat.
Am I being overly sensitive. How should I approach this?
Answer by Laila-May at 11:36 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by joysings at 11:32 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by CAGirl4 at 11:34 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by nicolemstacy at 11:34 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
I would straight up ask her, exactly how you posted it in this question. I am not one for games, and i am very blunt. I try to keep things more black and white, no wishy washy in the middle bullshit, either she wants to be your friend or she doesn't. It should be simple answer for her.
Answer by Mommy2JoshNJake at 11:35 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by katrinad at 11:35 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by kuriequinn at 11:46 PM on Jul. 9, 2010
Answer by txdaniella at 12:10 AM on Jul. 10, 2010
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