ookay, dh and i were really upset at each other, and he was walking out of the bedroom, closing the door, and i shoved the door closed so it would make a slamming sound, and it closed on his finger, ripped it open and popped it out of joint. we thought it was broken at first. he rushed back in and grabbed me and pulled me on the bed and just squeezed me because it was hurting him so bad. i'd been physically abused before, so i was really scared, but he was just hurting. it's the only time i've seen him so upset. he used to have really bad anger problems, and has worked on his temper so much that i could be screaming in his face and he would still be really calm. in fact, i'm learning more about being a calm person when i get angry because of him! haha, he's a great guy.
at 8:17 AM on Jul. 11, 2010