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My partner & I have 5 month old twins, when we are in public people stalk us, most people have common sense & ask the general questions, but some people get really personal the favorite question is: " Who is the Mother?" How would you answer that?

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Lbonita

Asked by Lbonita at 2:51 PM on Jul. 10, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • We BOTH are.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 2:52 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • "We both are" and smile and walk away. You do not owe anyone anything. Congrats on the babies!!!
    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 2:53 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • I agree with the top answers. Congratulations on you children.
    tryin2BGOOD

    Answer by tryin2BGOOD at 2:54 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • agreed with ^^PP^^
    DeeMarie87

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 2:54 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • I agree with the other moms. You politely say "we both are" :)
    Congats on the little ones!!!
    pipermomofash

    Answer by pipermomofash at 2:55 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • I would look at them and ask Are U SERIOUS REALLY!!!
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 2:55 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • I agree with the 'We both are' because you both are. I'm sorry you have to deal with idiots like that.
    purpleducky

    Answer by purpleducky at 2:56 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • Yes, we both are is great!! Congratulations!!
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 2:57 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • Oh my I read it wrong I agree that u say we both are duh!!!
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 3:00 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • I would say, these twins have the good fortune of having two mothers. This is the eternal question that heteros have for same sex couples, little do they know that there is no defining feature, partners 50/50. There doesn't have to be a male figure in this relationship, some just don't understand! I married my daughter and her partner, gave them a wedding at my house with all the trimmings, and although it is not legal, I pronouced them "partners in life"!
    older

    Answer by older at 3:03 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

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