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What would make you rethink your relationship deal breakers?

what would make your relationship over or make it stronger?


Asked by pinkdragon36 at 9:43 PM on Jul. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Deal breaker would be if my husband were abusive to me and of course had no desire to change. Or if he didn't love me. That's about all I can think of. Most other things can be worked through in a marriage.

    Answer by AshleyBDG at 9:46 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • My husband being more spontaneous with me and baring his soul to me.

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 9:44 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • Deal Breakers: abusive-physically, mentally or emotionally. cheating wether it be emotionally or physically...I could forgive the first time probably (doesn't mean it should happen even the first time). If he didn't love me/didn't want to be with me....
    Strengthening: More communication, being on the SAME PAGE about priorities and more time.

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 9:49 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • It really all depends on the couple.  Same can be happy and some can't. 

    For me personally, if my husband can't make love to me, then no it would not be a deal breaker.  If he won't, then there is something fundamentally wrong with the relationship, so yes it would be a deal breaker.


    Answer by beeky at 9:50 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • deal breaker for me is cheating (can forgive once but it shouldnt even happen), running us financially into the ground, putting other people and thigs before me and the children. keeper- i believe in working hard and putting your all in, if we hit a bump in the road i will stand by his side as long as he put 100% effort in along with me.

    Answer by 3xangel at 10:12 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • My deal breakers are drugs, abuse, homosexuality, and cheating. The things that could make me rethink vary from one to another. Drugs would be if he would seek help and actually fix things. Abuse, I'm not sure if anything could make me rethink that, maybe if he could really never do it again... Homosexuality would be hard to but if he could still have a good relationship with me then I guess I'd try. And cheating, that's hard to but I know I would give him several try's to fix things.

    Answer by Tes...Jacksmami at 12:31 AM on Jul. 11, 2010

  • drugs.
    sexual issues -rapist or pedophilia - u bet ur ass i would be calling the police before i was done.
    thinks i am stupid/treats me like "just a woman" -backwards thinking
    a guy who doesnt let me be me - i have dated guys that would not let me cut my hair cuz i would loose my feminity -f that never again

    Answer by MoMoFu at 1:02 AM on Jul. 11, 2010

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