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It seems like my boyfriend is more comfortable confiding in one of his co-workers who he is friends with (a girl) than me. Should this bother me?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:48 PM on Jul. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • what is he confiding in her about???? Is he just trying to get the female side of things to help out your relationship???

    Answer by connorsmom1970 at 11:52 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • It would bother me he is suppost to be ur best friend

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 11:53 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • It depends on the question or problem. If it's about how to clean something, I wouldn't have a problem. If he is complaining about you, I would have a problem with him going to another woman. Do we not complain about our dh's to our women friends? It is the same for men.

    Answer by dustbunny at 11:54 PM on Jul. 10, 2010

  • yes it would. it's the temtation of it.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 12:03 AM on Jul. 11, 2010

  • it can be complicated. she may be just a friend- I've got guy friends like that- and there are times when I feel more comfortable talking to them. Keep in mind that I don't live with them! less consequences if they don't agree with me!

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 12:04 AM on Jul. 11, 2010

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