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i am married to a good man, good in the sence that he provides for all my financial need, both for me and our one year old doughter.. my problem is that he has put on so much weight over the last few years, i dont find him attractive at all. to be honest ihe even disgust me, i know its not nice of me to say this but i cant help feeling this way. he knows how i feel but he seemed not so botherd by it as he is not doing anything about his weight. am ashamed and dont wanna be seen with him, when we have compony all i do is stare at his big belly and think" oh my god, everyone is staring at it" i want to leave him but i dont have the heart to do so, as he love me so much, and he says he had rather die than lose his doughter. i have fallen out of love with him, not becouse of his weight only but due to a lot of other stuff. am so confused and helpless, trapped in a loveless mariagge with a decent but unromantic boring man. what toAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:16 AM on Jul. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by urban_baybee at 2:23 AM on Jul. 11, 2010
I guess i just am having a really hard time rapping my mind around what you just said cause i just believe that you fall in-love and say vows not for what is on the inside but you love and honor, except your partner for who they are not for just there looks but for what is on the inside also. Personally you have came off as a sob and your one of them people that thinks your better then everyone. I believe no one is better then anyone and for the sake of your child try and make things work out. Watch what you buy and make sure when he eats your cooking it's healthy and i think you should look into some professional help for you and both of you all.
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