so bf and i have been together 4 years and for a while he had almost cut off his friends and has recently in the past year been spending quite a bit of time away from home with them. he is an aspiring rapper(hobby) and on at least one to 2 nights a week he goes to the studio with his friends until the wee hours of the morning, and maybe once or twice a month they will go to a nightclub. also he HAS to visit them 2 times a week at least after work just to grab a beer, etc. so he went clubbing last night after i got off work, came home at 5 am, went to work, and was supposed to get off at 2, he stayed over and got off at 4, then calls and says hes going to his friends house for a beer and will be home by 6. its 6:30 dinner is done and getting cold and i am lonely and bored! why must he be with them so much? i never leave the house like that and would rather be with the family anyway! i just want to scream at him! overreacting???
I would be mad too. I had an ex that would do this. He NEVER spent time with me. I put up with his crap for about 3 years. If you can not come to a compromise then maybe you should go your separate ways. Like someone already said. If he makes it big you will see him a lot less. Is that the kind of life you want and are willing to live?
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