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Would you rather have your 1st child as a boy or girl?

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Asked by urban_baybee at 1:14 AM on Jul. 12, 2010 in

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  • I think both have there benefits and disadvantages. I would say either wouldnt matter as long as they are healthy and happy.. I have 3 girls so I have no Idea what its like to have a boy..

    Answer by MommySteph1011 at 1:16 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • A Boy...and that's what I had first, and what I wanted.

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 1:16 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I wanted to have my first as a girl then I wanted a boy second. Luckly that is what I got too.

    Answer by alaskansglmom at 1:17 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I wanted a boy, got a boy but I'm sure it would have been equally as nice to have a girl first. We have two boys, another boy on the way, and I love it :) He is a wonderful big brother, and I'm sure my second will be a wonderful big brother too.

    Answer by Precious333 at 1:20 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I wanted a girl first really bad for some weird reason. I had a girl and then went on to have a boy and another girl.

    Answer by bookworm23 at 1:23 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I have a son and ca't imagine life without him.

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 1:28 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I really wanted a girl but i had a boy. I hope i have a girl this time because i am really never wanting to do this again... I love it when it's over and i cherish the pregnancy memories.. but while it's happening i hate being so sick .. this time i am dizzy and faint a lot more.... Oh please let me buy a dress? lol

    Answer by MoMoFu at 1:31 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I wanted a girl, got a boy, but honestly I wouldn't trade him for anything. I'm happy.

    I would like a girl next time, but if not, well it wasn't meant to be and I won't be trying a 3rd time.

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 1:38 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • A boy 'cause my DH didn't have ANY family, he was the only one left, and I wanted for us to keep the family name going...and we had a boy - Praise Jesus! - and then another one 3 yrs. later....and then I had my tubes tied ! LOL...our youngest is a ...let's say energetic one, very charming, sweet and funny, but constantly pushing the envelope :)

    Answer by Nynne at 1:40 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I really, really wanted a boy. I got a girl. She is the best thing ever! I wouldn't trade her for my life. I still want a boy, but I am happy if I am never to have another child again.

    Answer by sillymoo at 1:46 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

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