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i feel like a bad mom idk why but i do

so today my DD was throwing a huge fit
and i looked at her and im like
this cant be my life
and this cant be my daughter
i feel like a bad mom
my sister say that she felt the same when she was a single mom
but it dont feel right to me
and i love my daughter she is my life
and iv felt like shit ever since then
is it normal to feel like this?
or am i really a bad mom?

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19bubbles91

Asked by 19bubbles91 at 3:50 AM on Jul. 12, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Hey girl! where you been ?:)

    dont feel like a bad mom, ive had that thought go through my mind before. its normal.
    MomNbabyGirl009

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 3:51 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • for sure its normal.. we all go through those times where we stop and look around and say the same thing. you are not a bad mother.. Or no one is a good mother.
    MoMoFu

    Answer by MoMoFu at 4:12 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • #

    iv honselty never felt like that befor

    and even when i looked at her

    i felt like it was a dream

    and that i would wake up any min

    i guess it does happen but i still feel like shit and feel like just busting down and crying my eyes out
    19bubbles91

    Comment by 19bubbles91 (original poster) at 4:22 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • no, your not a bad mom, believe it or not EVERYONE goes through this, weather they want to admit it or not, we all sometimes feel like WTF?! I love my kids all of them, more then life itself. Not more then God but I love my kids more then myself or my life and I've felt like that, I've cried thinking I'm a failure as a mother, like what did I do wromg or what did I not do right! We all go thorugh and and I'm sure that my kids will grow up and someday think," is this really my mom? why?!" Don't feel like a bad mom. Atleast you didn't call her names or beat her.
    babyangelromero

    Answer by babyangelromero at 4:23 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • It's true we all go through this. I can tell you as the mother of a 12 year old, I still have times when I think, this can't be right. It doesn't make you a bad mother at all. I am sure you are doing your very best! Really what more can you ask of yourself?
    ErinRenee815

    Answer by ErinRenee815 at 7:32 AM on Jul. 12, 2010

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