I am 15 weeks pregnant with my third child. I already have two boys that are SO crazy! My two year old is always pushing my buttons on purpose and my four year old is ADHD and is ALWAYS into something! I try so hard to be a good mom and keep up with them but its just breaking me down! The baby that Im pregnant with now was a surprise. I was done having babys cause my two are more then a full time job as it is! Im having marital problems.. if that what you can even call it.. its like a roommate instead of a helper and best friend! I cant take the stress anymore! Im yelling and screaming all the time it makes my stomach burn! My boys just push and push and fight with each other over stupid stuff and fight with me! It seems like they are ALWAYS crying and whining and i feel so bad like im letting them down and not being appreciative of what God gave me or being the mother I should be. Please someone help!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:51 AM on Jul. 12, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by kassee at 9:56 AM on Jul. 12, 2010
You need to get a way and have some serious 'me' time. Because your husband is not really a husband from what you say, you need to seek some help from somewhere else. Do you maybe have any family that can help you?
Do have any way to get some counseling? It might help a lot if you could just get a way for a little while and talk with someone about what 's going on in your life. A therapist is a great listener and can also give you the tools necessary to get your stress and anger under control.
Answer by IhartU at 9:57 AM on Jul. 12, 2010
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Answer by Alanaplus3 at 10:15 AM on Jul. 12, 2010
Calm down and breath deeply.
You NEED some time to yourself. Talk to your husband and tell him that the constant stress is having a negative impact on your physical and mental health.
If you can afford it, put the children into daycare one or two days a week to give you some breathing room. Your oldest will be in school soon so it will be easier to handle the younger two.
Answer by beeky at 10:33 AM on Jul. 12, 2010
Answer by salexander at 10:57 AM on Jul. 12, 2010