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why people aren't nice they don't speak in passing by or going into the store

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sunkist332002

Asked by sunkist332002 at 5:47 PM on Jul. 12, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs

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  • I am
    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 5:47 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I say hi to almost every one I make eye contact with.
    sahlady

    Answer by sahlady at 5:48 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I don't know, I do those things usually. :)
    LovingSAHMommy

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 5:48 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • What?

    Are you asking why some people are not polite?

    There is not definitive answer for you on this one.
    FromAtoZ

    Answer by FromAtoZ at 5:49 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I don't usually speak to strangers. i've been pulled into some strange conversations!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:49 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I am really shy most days (some days I am not at all) but I typically just try not to look at anyone in fear of someone saying hi.
    ABusyBee

    Answer by ABusyBee at 5:50 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I don't usually speak but I will offer a smile and hold open doors. I also am sure to say thank you when people do the same for me!
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 5:52 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • Not saying hello doesn't equate to not being "nice". It may mean they are super busy or have a lot on their mind or are very shy. There could be any reason why. Why are you assuming things about people?
    If they don't hold a door, or give you a nasty look when YOU say hello or try to push you out of line, then yes I'd say they may lack some manners. but again, those things could be offshoots of someone having a really bad day as well.
    sahmamax2

    Answer by sahmamax2 at 5:53 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • I think some of this is cultural......even in different regions of this country the norms vary......in my experience most people who come across as rude or stuck up are really just shy and/or ill at ease....
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 6:07 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • This can also be regional I think different parts of the country might be more chatty with strangers then others.

    RyansMom001

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:33 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

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