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why does it take me so long to finish? tmi

i dont have much feeling down there and it usually takes me a long while to become wet.... and a lonnnng time to finish. i am pregnant and it has only gotten worse.. it is frustrating because i really try but my DH always ends up finishing before me because it takes me way to long, and he will try to keep going but i just say stop because im not in the mood after that.... HELP!? whats wrong with me??

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:07 PM on Jul. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i dont know what it is but im the same way never was like this until about a year ago i have no drive for sex at all and i feel like i just want to get up and eat in the middle of it and im not pregnant

    Answer by jennette0704 at 7:13 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • Try talking to your dr about it and see what they say. Other than that I don't know hormones I'm sure play a huge part in it.

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 7:14 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • is it just when your pregnant? yeah...i would discuss it with the doc next time you go in.

    Answer by Leezah at 7:45 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

  • Are you keeping yourself hydrated? I know back when I went to the gyno before I started having sex, she mentioned keeping yourself hydrated helps. Also, try setting the mood to help get yourself turned on earlier -- like low light, back massages, things that can turn you on, but don't take as much work as lots of foreplay (although foreplay helps too!)

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 7:54 PM on Jul. 12, 2010

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