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Does being forgiving mean????

giving someone money when they tell you they are in need. Then when I say I do not have it, they get mad and wish harm on my life or relationship.
And when they talk to me they always mention how they went to eat out at a restaraunt.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:51 AM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • no giving them money would be charitable

    Answer by jennifer588 at 12:53 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • sounds like your dealing with a crazy.

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 12:53 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • No. Forgiveness is not monetary in value.

    allowing someone to manipulate you into supporting them is not forgiveness.

    I wish you wouldn't have deleted your first q, it was spelled out much nicer the first time.

    Answer by lovinangels at 12:53 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Nope, that's not what forgiving means. IMO forgiveness means saying to yourself "This person hurt me deeply but I'm hurting myself even worse by dwelling on it. I will not let this person have that control over me anymore." Then move on. Whatever happens after that is your call.

    Answer by renea20 at 12:55 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I don't give people money

    Answer by admckenzie at 1:18 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • No its not

    Answer by LiLJeni at 1:30 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • WOW! That's crazy!

    Answer by randerykah at 1:48 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

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