my dh loves me. but tonight i tried to talk to him abt us both leaving a dispute happy.. finding away where we both feel happy. we have been together 8 yrs. he doesnt care abt hearing me out. his response was that im telling him what to say. and i always have demands.. this afternoon he wanted to have friend come over. i admit i freaked out bc my house was mess and i wanted to take a shower. i asked if next time i could get some notice. he said u always have stipulations.isnt our job as spouses to try to make the other happy..i think he has given up. i dont want to leave. i want to be married to him. when its bad its bad. when its good its great.. every word that comes out of mouth annoys him..i feel like the only way i can get a response is by giving him the slient treatment. WHAT does one do when only one wants to try? he is civil to me but god forbid i ask him for anything. The only solution i have is to be slientAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by randerykah at 1:55 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
Answer by Kirs at 1:59 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
You know, I am getting so tired of dealing with toxic people in my life, that my advice would probably be something you don't want to do. But if it was me I would tell my husband that I am done. That the street goes both ways and if he can't do his part, then there's the door!
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