my husband loves anal sex, i find it painfull and disgusting, we have been married for ten years and he has been begging me to try it, i let him do it once, i did not enjoy it at all, but he loved it.. he convinced me two other occasions and i made him swear that he wont ask for it again. well now he has started something new, he inserts a finger in my anus during intercorse, he has a had time coming if he doesnt do that! whats up with the anus obsession? does this make him gay? he actually likes it better back there than the normal way. this worries me a lot.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:23 AM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by GinNTonic at 4:25 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
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Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:34 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
All of the other ladies are right hun. I just thought I'd add that he shouldn't be doing anything to you that you don't like or want. Tell him how you feel and what you like and don't like during sex/foreplay. If he tries to stick anything in your anus after that, stop the sex/foreplay immediately, tell him that you have already told him numerous times that you do not like that, and walk away. He has no right to force what he wants upon you. I'm not sure how your husband is, but if he tries to make you feel guilty about this, don't let him. He wouldn't like things being shoved in his butt and you respect that, he can respect you too. When he does sexual things to you that you don't like or want, it is NEVER your fault, ever.
Answer by -xoxo- at 8:12 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 9:10 AM on Jul. 13, 2010
like everyone else says, he is not gay. Anal sex can actually be very enjoyable if done right. It's much tighter than the vagina & some men prefer how it feels. I am one of those women who really enjoys anal sex. We have special techniques that we use so that it feels good, in fact...i think it feels great. I always have a vibrator on my clitoris though, it makes me orgasm like crazy. If you would like some anal sex tips so that you can enjoy it & not hate it, let me know, PM me, I'll tell ya how it's done & your DH will LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:23 AM on Jul. 13, 2010