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should I mind if my husband goes a way for 5 days with his friends?

He does this every year, some of my friends dont like it. But I dont seem to care.


Asked by incarnita at 7:47 AM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • I would mind if I did not get anything in return? You should do the same thing!!!

    Answer by allmomma at 8:10 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I would.

    Answer by IhartU at 7:49 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I would be irritated, but would totally use it as an opportunity for me to go on a mini vacation with the girls once a year. Mine probably wouldn't be 5 days, maybe a 3 day weekend or something, but I would definitely round up some girls and go!

    Answer by MommyH2 at 7:49 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I would not mind either because it would give me a chance to have five days by myself. I would go out to dinner movies workout and write. Sleep in and just have a good time.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 7:56 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • let him have his time, but work out time for you too, you should have some vaca time if he takes it, go to a spa or even just have him play mommy for a couple days and let you relax

    Answer by Laura_Cruz at 8:00 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I would get irritated. I am a sahm to a 2yr old, 10 month old and I am 8 months pregnant with my 3rd. If he wanted to pretend that he wasnt a parent for 5 days then he shouldve thought twice before having kids. JMHO

    Answer by SabrenaLeigh at 8:13 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Honestly, I would not mind if my husband did this, but I would completely expect a long weekend for me and my girlfriends "in return".

    Answer by mommy11260 at 7:54 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I wouldn't mind either.

    Answer by Bezu at 7:56 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • as long as they weren't doing anything to compromise your marriage, I don't see a problem.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 10:42 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Mine is on a week long vacation right now and I'm happy for him.

    Answer by lovemydivas at 7:52 AM on Jul. 13, 2010