Ok, you'll need a little background: I'm 20 years old, have a 2year old son with my fiance (we've been together for 4 yrs) and have lived in a tiny town in NYS for 9 yrs.
My fiance wants to move to North Carolina. I love it down there, it's beautiful and there are tons more opportunities than there are where I am [there's a VERY limited job market around here]. His best friend [our son's godfather] moved there with his wife 5 years ago and described it as happily ever after.
My only issue is that I'm extremely close with my family. My dad is older  and is VERY close to my son. My son adores him and my dad is the same. My dad and I are also very close, I don't live at home but I talk to him everyday and see him at least twice a week. While I'd love to move [you really have no idea how bad this town sucks], I don't think I could leave my family! I hear about people doing it all the time but how do you let go?
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