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Honestly, is it easier to give in to sex when you don't want to?

 
randerykah

Asked by randerykah at 11:15 AM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Yes. It's just easier. If I try to tell him no we end up fighting about it. So to just be done with subject a hell of lot quicker, I give in.
    Katt709

    Answer by Katt709 at 11:34 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • If I'm not 100% into it my husband doesn't want to which I think it really sweet and selfless of him.

    I've never been talked into or pressured into having sex and to me that would turn me off completely!
    Sara.Robyson

    Answer by Sara.Robyson at 11:18 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • A lot of the times when I don't feel like it and give in, I end up enjoying it anyway, so the answer to your question is YES, most of the time!
    older

    Answer by older at 11:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • yes and no its uncomfortable for you when your just not in the mood but then he wont be complaining if you just give in
    jennette0704

    Answer by jennette0704 at 11:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I think so, unless I am truly physically to sick.

    BandME

    Answer by BandME at 11:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Well if you wanted to,it wouldn't be giving in!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • You should NEVER "give in" to sex.

    Our bodies are a gift to be freely given to our spouses. Giving your body just to "keep the peace" is allowing yourself to be used and treated as an object for his own selfish gratification and cheapens the act of marital love. If he loves you and respects you, he would not want to use you in this manner, but instead would want to love you as a person and not as a thing
    Maureen-MD

    Answer by Maureen-MD at 2:08 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I think so.. Even if I'm not in the mood--he can always get me in the mood so might as well make him happy!
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:16 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Well, yeah. If you DO want to you're not giving in.
    UpSheRises

    Answer by UpSheRises at 11:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Besides who wants to have sex with a whiny baby of a man anyway? : /

    It really sounds like a child that has learned the more I whine and complain the more likely I'll get what I want because the parent would just to shut them up. Bleh! : P
    Sara.Robyson

    Answer by Sara.Robyson at 11:28 AM on Jul. 13, 2010

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