Not sure what to do. my oldest son is 4. my middle son is 17 months..they take a bath together..my son is very mature...and he helps me a lot..well i left them in the tub to walk 3 feet away to my youngest son's room to check on him...i go back in the boys are about 2 feet from each other but my 4 year old has a hard on. he didn't touch my other son is ne way i was close enough to the room and the door was open i would have heard them moving. i know lil boys get hard ons for stupid reasons for all i know he washed himself and it got hard. My question is what do i do about it? When i walked in he said look i have a big winky.which he's always been fasinated that it get's bigger..like at night and he wakes up and has to pee. i have 3 boys i just dont know how to approach this and let him know sportin wood while he's takin a bath with his little brother isn't cool without makin him feel bad for something he has no control overAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Preschoolers (3-4)
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Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 3:23 PM on Jul. 13, 2010
I think you are putting way to much thought into this. They are just babies. Everything is fun & new to them. The younger one probably doesn't even notice anything. I totally agree with Mommatasha1003. Just be matter of fact about it. If you make it an issue then the behavior takes on a whole new meaning to the child. I wouldn't give them separate baths, they are going to see each other naked for a very long time. What's the big deal? They get a boner when they are tired too, not just stimulated.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 4:06 PM on Jul. 13, 2010
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