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Would you support you husbands bad habit....

if it made him a nicer person?

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Asked by reesemom at 6:37 PM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • like smoking? no i dont.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 6:38 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I guess it depends on the habit...

    Answer by Laila-May at 6:38 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • depends on what the habit was, something like drugs or alcohol i wouldent....but i dont have the problem, the only bad habits he has is video games, i dont think that could ever make him a better person LOL

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 6:39 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • bad habits are bad habits no matter if it helps him be a nicer person. . . normally it is due to an addiction and the only reason he is "nicer" is because of the fix. . . I would not support it or him. . .

    Answer by Kirs at 6:39 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • oh i lied he is a smoker, im a smoker too so i guess we support each others lol

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 6:40 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Smoking yes, I'd let that be up to him. Drugs or such no, we would have to separate till he wanted to stop, then I'll be happe to support him while he goes thru the steps or whatnot.

    Answer by Nynne at 6:41 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • it depends on what those "habits" are. Gaming? Sure, why not. Drugs or Alcohol? I've been there, and I did support it as to not create "waves" - I will NEVER do it again. My mouth is far from closed at this point! Smoking? Meh, I don't see it as a big deal, so sure.

    Point is, it depends on the habit.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:41 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I just wanted to add that by support, I don't mean pay for but when you are married the money is the families so it does effect everyone in a way.

    Comment by reesemom (original poster) at 6:42 PM on Jul. 13, 2010


    Answer by lightbulbe at 6:42 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • is he doing something illegal? No
    If it is taking hurrocks and going and hanging with the boys it is not bad

    Answer by jagrus at 6:42 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

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