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Would you marry someone in jail?

Let's say you have been with this guy for a long time and you two really love each other. You have plans to get married. But then the guy gets arrested and could possibly have to serve some serious time. Would you marry him while he's in jail?


Asked by Anonymous at 11:48 PM on Jul. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • You say you guys have history together. I say Follow your heart.
    Keep in mind that you can love him and support him while he is in there. If he is serving serious time he has to love you enough to let you be a woman, "do you" and move forward.
    He will need to understand that live moves on and even though he may need your support and you love him, you have to think of what is right for you and your family. Sometimes what is right for us is not what we want AT THE MOMENT but in the long run we then realize, things happen for a reason.

    Answer by RealestRican at 1:35 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • depends on what he got in trouble for...

    Answer by hotrodmomma at 11:49 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Every situation is different. Just depends I guess...

    Answer by theutilitarian at 11:51 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • no. I would not.

    Answer by lovinangels at 11:52 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • NO WAY!

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 11:49 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Never!

    Answer by ghostwriter777 at 11:51 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • I do not believe in marriage, so NO!

    Answer by truthteller0722 at 11:51 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • nope.. and if he was in jail, I'd leave.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 11:55 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • Unless he killed someone protecting me or my kid, no way in hell.

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 11:57 PM on Jul. 13, 2010

  • NOPE.
    To be in jail for "serious time" means he did something BAD and that is not the type of person I want to be with.

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 11:59 PM on Jul. 13, 2010