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Spin off from another question. If you cheated would your husband divorce you or try to work it out?

Yeah, I know we say we won't cheat and most of us never would. Purely "what if" here.

 
Kiwismommy19

Asked by Kiwismommy19 at 1:41 AM on Jul. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • I have cheated. Not physically but emotionally and I don't know how or even why my husband puts up with me but we are working it out, and I have been doing better. We have been doing better. I can't imagine my life without him, really. I think I was just suffering from insanity or something when I thought I could love someone else. Or maybe I just didn't feel loved enough so I searched for it elsewhere, when all along, I realized no one can love me more than my husband can.
    GinNTonic

    Answer by GinNTonic at 2:04 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • As long as i was willing to work it out, he would want to work it out.

    i know, because i almost cheated on him once. and he forgave me 100%
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 1:47 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • Knowing my husband's history, and that he has been cheated on, he would probably divorce me. Neither of us would cheat though.
    montanagal2005

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 1:48 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • Divorce, definately. If i cheated, he would divorce me and if he cheated i would divorce him, hands down. Im certain that neither one of us would cheat tho!
    katamike

    Answer by katamike at 1:55 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • I'm certain he would try to work it out.
    theutilitarian

    Answer by theutilitarian at 1:43 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • I would like to believe he would want to work things out. Knowing him and me..Trust would just be hard to rebuild
    RealestRican

    Answer by RealestRican at 1:43 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • it would definately be divorce, but i would do the same thing. not that i would ever cheat on him, but if either of us did...it would be divorce either way. if you love someone you DON'T do that to them.
    nickellmomof2

    Answer by nickellmomof2 at 1:44 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • He would leave for a while but he will come back.
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 1:46 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • most likely he would leave me like he left his ex wife who cheated on him and his fiance who cheated on him before her ( he was in the military and had a bad habit of being with women who couldnt handle being alone).
    3_ring_circus_

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 1:58 AM on Jul. 14, 2010

  • We'd work it out most likely. I think a lot of times cheating is a deeper problem that needs to be worked thru if you both really love each other and really want to be together. But that being said, I can't see myself cheating, or my SO
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 1:59 AM on Jul. 14, 2010