I am on my second marriage. I have 2 kids and he has 2 kids. We tried to have a baby togather and i misscarried our son at 5 months. I want to have a baby with him so bad it hurts. I have trouble being arround his kids because it reminds me of the son i lost. We have been trying to have a baby now for about nine months and im not getting pregnant. I dont want to end up making him misserable because im having trouble coping. what can i do to help me get past this. Im afraid we will never have a baby togather.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:26 AM on Oct. 1, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:45 AM on Oct. 1, 2008
I'm in the same boat you are ! , we both came into the marriage with children of our own from other relationships and we've been trying for 7years to have a baby but it hasn'tÂ happened as of yet for us, It's gotten too the point where we have given up on having a baby, if it happens it happens and just have sex for fun . It's hard when the person you love so much is unable to give you that specialbond you want ( a baby) But if you have already a strong love for each other the not having a child together is what will keep your relationship alive! You may want to try counseling for your self and then with your DH as well. Trust me I know its not easy to deal with some days are better then others, I don't think the pain will ever completely go away but with time it becomes easier to deal with! I'm sorry that you too are going through this I know its not easy but I hope in your case your able to get pregnant again.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:21 AM on Oct. 1, 2008
Answer by LovinEveryDay at 10:21 AM on Oct. 1, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Oct. 1, 2008
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