Your husband has been fired from a job and keeps making excuses as to why he can't get one at the current time? He is going to school full time (which he was managing WHILE he STILL HAD his previous job). We have 3 very young children and one on the way....(already concieved before he lost his job) and his family and my family and church have been helping us with bills, diapers and a few extras for almost a year now.
I'm tired of excuses, i'm tired of living like this, but can't fathom divorcing because of our children. I never wanted that life for them. Do I suck it up and just get a job and support us? Leaving our kids with HIM mind you! He's never fixed breakfast with them....or had to EVER do it alone with all of our kids, let alone a newborn. The ONE time he did, he had a psychotic episode...no joke. It makes me physically ill that it wouldn't bother him to make me work when he's not willing to even try to get a job...
Asked by Anonymous at 8:28 PM on Jul. 15, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Precious333 at 8:38 PM on Jul. 15, 2010
One- I am sorry you can't trust your DH with his own kids. ONE of you should get a job. I assume your income is his unemployment? It may not be a bad idea for you to get a job, then you'll have his unem. and a paycheck for you. Of course if you really don't think he can care for the kids, then I am not sure what you should do.
Answer by KairisMama at 8:34 PM on Jul. 15, 2010
Answer by beckcorc at 8:35 PM on Jul. 15, 2010
Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 8:48 PM on Jul. 15, 2010
Answer by nicolemstacy at 9:02 PM on Jul. 15, 2010