Ok, my SO and I have been kind of rocky lately, theres been a lot of fighting. We talked it through and decided to start going to counseling and work on fixing things. The last few times we've had sex, i've faked my orgasms. Im attracted to him, but it's like it just doesn't feel good enough to get me off. I have tried several different stratagies, and nothing works. But, when I'm alone and masterbating, I can make myself climax super fast. Last night, I didn't fake an orgasm, I simple told him it wasn't working and that I though I was just too tired. What do I do to fix this?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:22 AM on Jul. 16, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by pixie_trix at 11:26 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by HotMama330 at 11:36 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
I will say though, that i could not orgasm with my ex husband. i tried to make our sex life work, but it just didn't no matter how hard i tried. I was lacking love for him & i think that's what really made it hard. eventually, we stopped having sex all together because he grossed me out so much & it ended in divorce. Sometimes, people are just not sexually compatible.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:38 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by branmomma32 at 11:30 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
bring your vibrator in the bedroom when you guys have sex & use it on your clitoris while he is inside of you. If you have to fantasize that it's Brad Pit, go for it, he does not have to know.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:36 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by kicknscreamn222 at 11:37 AM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by ItsMe89 at 12:51 PM on Jul. 16, 2010