I'd like to stay anon : ) He said he just didn't think it was a big deal. They went to his house then to eat, and thought I wouldn't care. To me, it is a common courtesy thing. I tried to remain calm, and did well, save for one minor phone call that I ended due to being too upset. Honestly, if he had said his mother didn't want to meet me or he wanted time alone with his family, I would be fine with that. I live a ways out and I waited in town for 3 hours to hear from him.
I didn't message or call him because I didn't know if they were busy and I didn't want to interrupt his time with his mom. I had thought about it, but I thought it would be rude to do that.
I'm just so hurt that I wasn't even a consideration when they went to eat. Like "hey! Someone else was supposed to join us. I wonder if I should let her know whether or not to come". You would think it would cross his mind at some point.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:11 PM on Jul. 16, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by elizabr at 1:15 PM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 1:19 PM on Jul. 16, 2010