I mentioned looking for shoes for my son for his christening, and this friend knows we dont have alot of money...I didnt say it in a group to beg for charity I did it to vent, and get fashion ideas...and she decided to buy shoes(which I had mentioned were NOT appropriate for this event) and then announced it in the group...
how can I say it hurt my feelings without making her feel bad? her heart was int he right place(it always is) but she made me feel bad....and I am asking this anon as I dont give a hoot about credits, I just dont want to hurt her, while also letting her know she crossed a line....
Asked by Anonymous at 11:56 PM on Jul. 16, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by itsallabtthem84 at 11:57 PM on Jul. 16, 2010
Answer by outstandingLove at 12:00 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by supermom2005 at 12:00 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by surfcitymom at 12:03 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Everyone in America is struggling financially so, I doubt the people in your group thought twice.
Answer by MDT09 at 12:06 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by StellarJKD at 12:24 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by A11 at 12:32 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
I guess it's best to be honest with her, just tell her that you appreciate her gesture but it made you fee bad about your situation.
Answer by mommy_sam at 5:53 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by janel123 at 12:07 AM on Jul. 17, 2010
Answer by LoriaAnn at 6:51 PM on Jul. 17, 2010