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Would you let your 7 year old son carry a purse?

I know a woman whose son wants to carry a purse. I don't know if it's because he's seen his mom do it or what, but the dad says absolutely no way. The mother, on the other hand, sees nothing wrong with it. What would you do if your son approached you with this?

 
LovingSAHMommy

Asked by LovingSAHMommy at 11:38 AM on Jul. 17, 2010 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (38)
  • Thats a hard one. I think I would start by telling him that purses are for girls and that if he wants to play with one thats okay but he can't take one out in public or to school etc.
    BlainesMommy09

    Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 11:39 AM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • Sure. If he wants to I don't see how it's hurting him or anyone else. So yeah, I would let him.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 11:50 AM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • I would have to say yes, we dont do the whole dolls are for girls, trucks are for boy thing in our house. I would def try and make it a lo key color or whatever but hed still be allowed if thats what he wanted, and my husband would be fine with it as well.
    mamallamaof2

    Answer by mamallamaof2 at 2:18 PM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • If I had a boy, I'd have no problem with it. What's the difference in a boy carrying a purse and a girl packing a football around? If it's what makes them happy, and it doesn't hurt anyone, what's the big deal?
    I'd let him know that some people may make fun of him for it so he knows what he's in for. And if he still wanted to do it, I'd give him credit for being brave enough to be himself and make himself happy even faced with teasing. :-)
    Kiwismommy19

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 5:57 PM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • CafeMochaMom1 - What does a girl need a purse for?
    purpleducky

    Answer by purpleducky at 6:05 PM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • I agree with Kiwi..I would let my son. In fact my 2 year old loves going into his grandmother's bag and purse so she bought him a little one. It is cute watching him walk around with it. If he wanted one when he is 7 fine by me. I think people read into these things too much and make too much a deal out of something that really doesn't matter.
    keyaziz

    Answer by keyaziz at 6:18 PM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • He's a child, who cares. My husband freaks when our 1 year old plays with his sisters purse. Parents shouldn't force their kids to play with "girl" toys or "boy"toys. Let them play with what toy they want.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:50 PM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • I am going to have to agree with BlainesMommy09.
    beckie66

    Answer by beckie66 at 11:40 AM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • No, there are great back packs/messenger bags if he feels the need to carry something.
    QandA

    Answer by QandA at 11:42 AM on Jul. 17, 2010

  • agree with blainesmom
    but if he was reallt into
    i guess i would try to take a step back and look at him through non mom eyes
    does he has a different gender indenitity?
    i also think his father would not go for this
    so i think even if i could compromise on him taking some place, if would case a riff between me and his dad

    i hope i could handle a gender indentity diiferent than society norm with grace
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:43 AM on Jul. 17, 2010

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