I have a platonic male friend that I'm really close to. We've talked about 'feelings' and he says he just wants to be friends with me, I'm cool with that - but what I don't understand is his behavior. We text each other daily - multiple times a day, sometimes insane amounts (lol) and he'll send me good morning texts, how are you doing texts, having a good day? texts... he texts with my 12 yr old daughter (she texts him first on my phone, he's not a creep, lol). If my daughter is sick he will text me to see how she is - stuff like that.
What I'm wondering is: is this a typical best friend/platonic relationship?! (We are both single). Because none of my other male friends put so much effort into our friendships... kwim? It seems like there is 'more' to us. I dunno, guess I just need some perspective... :-)
Asked by Anonymous at 6:22 PM on Jul. 18, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by ABusyBee at 6:35 PM on Jul. 18, 2010
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Answer by keyaziz at 7:10 PM on Jul. 18, 2010
Tell him you are confused about y'alls relationship. Tell him you understand he wants to be friends, but sometimes he acts as if he cares "TOOO" much to just be friends. Be straight with him.
Answer by samurai_chica at 7:19 PM on Jul. 18, 2010
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Answer by LizzieAnnesMom at 2:46 AM on Jul. 19, 2010