i kind of had this problem with my first son but i think it's worse this time. i only had minor tearing w/ my first but this time i had a 2nd degree tear and i was freaking out a lot because my son was preemie and i was scared and the doctor made a comment like he couldn't stitch me up as well as he would like because of all my screaming and cringing. :(
i have been to my midwife for my 6 week appointment and then everything was feeling fine although she did comment that my vagina was kind of "gapey" and i should do kegels. :P
since then i have been feeling twangs of pain sometimes, but faint enough that i can't tell if i'm imagining it or not. anyway my husband and i have still not had sex. i'm tired, i don't feel sexy, don't have a sex drive, and i'm scared it will hurt, or split open.
thanks for any supportive comments.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Jul. 18, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)
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