So when I got pregnant with my 2nd child my mil bought a double wide trailer so we could all live together. In the beginning she had a job and she was helping. Now that she no longer works she doesn't help with anything. She applied for disabilty and she just got her settlement for 14 thousand and will be receiving almost 2 grand a month. She has made it clear she will not help with bills. We have been paying all of them for almost 2 yrs now. We struggle week to week with nothing in savings. She is blowing her money left and right. I don't think its quite far. If she ever wants us to move out I think she should help with a little. It amazes me. She can blow 1400 dollars on a kirby vac (which she doesn't even clean!) But she refuses to help out on the bills. I'm just a little irritated and my dh won't say anything! Any opinions? Suggestions? I'm just stuck. I'm stuck. Irritated. Annoyed. Frustrated with everything.
Answer by DessC at 10:16 AM on Jul. 19, 2010
Answer by Ati_13 at 10:09 AM on Jul. 19, 2010
Answer by MizLee at 10:16 AM on Jul. 19, 2010
So crazy you are almost living my life 10 yrs ago! My dh and I bought a trailer that was signed for by inlaws. They contributed no money just name because we had no credit. 6 months in they (long story short) move in with us....and wouldn't LEAVE. They brought along his younger brother. They WERE working but refused to help with any bills! BUT they ate the food, used the power and water ands took up all the space! I handled it for about 6 more months then I gave my hubby an ultimatum. I was due with our first child in 3 more months and there was no where to put her and we were barely making ends meet. He had a choice move out with ME or stay with THEM either way I was getting OUT. He came with me and They STILL say that I "stuck them" with the trailer even though we offerend to sell it but then (duh) where would they go!? But I dont cxare I have my sanity and KNOW they are CRAZY!
Answer by momof030404 at 10:21 AM on Jul. 19, 2010