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If the guy you were seeing said this, what would you think?

We have been joking around about the fact we have not had our first "major fight". While we were watching TV, he stood up and told me, "that's when we will have our first fight, right after we get married". He told me once before that he was over 40 and didn't intend to get married ever again... but I'm a little confused... or was it his way of saying we would never have a "major fight" because we will never get married...??

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:49 PM on Jul. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Maybe he views marriage as a deal breaker for being able to get along so well. Many men think that its all down hill after marriage.

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 12:51 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • You are assuming too much, instead why not ask?-

    Answer by older at 12:51 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • Huh that is confusing because it sounds like he doesn't want to get married but then says the first fight would be WHEN you get married. hmm I don't know.

    Answer by Savymom25 at 12:52 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • Lol...I think he was being funny....sounds like something my DF would say...although we have had MANY MAJOR fights....and we are not married YET :-) dont take it personal mama!

    Answer by oregonduck at 12:52 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • why not just ask? IF he said that to me i would have instantly come back with "well i thought you didn't want to get married again" ...I'm not one to beat around the bush, straight forward is the way to go. Just Ask!

    Answer by Mommy2JoshNJake at 12:55 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • well he is thinking about marriage keep making hints

    Answer by Laura_Cruz at 12:58 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • sounds like a guy who doesnt know what he wants

    Answer by shay1130 at 12:58 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • idk sounds like he might have changed his mind or yall will never have a fight and just be together

    Answer by Shannon706 at 12:59 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • If it were me, I would just ask.

    Answer by mommy11260 at 1:05 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • Just ask him. Sidenote: are you okay with being with someone that doesn't want to get married

    Answer by MsHouseWife at 2:53 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

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