It has been awhile since I have posted. My hubby and I split up and I got my own place. I miss him. However I know if I go back he will allow his kids to hurt me again. It seems he has no control over this.
He has made degrading comments about women and when I confronted him about the hurt last night he acted like he did not know that it hurt me. Here is an example of his comments..
1. While viewing porn he stated that women are like cars...There is no problem with looking..as long as you dont purchase.
2. While out to dinner with me he said to a waitress...What is on special tonight besides you?
3. When the painter came to paint our living room(female) he commented on how pretty she was. Not a big deal. Then he said he was going out to wash my car. I thought that was sweet since he had not done so for a long time. So not only did he wash my car he washed the painter girls car too!! pissed me off.
What should I say...?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Jul. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 2:22 PM on Jul. 19, 2010
Answer by LyTe684 at 2:23 PM on Jul. 19, 2010
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Answer by gonzalez3 at 2:25 PM on Jul. 19, 2010
Answer by Jademom07 at 2:26 PM on Jul. 19, 2010
What should you say?... You should say "Thank God I wised up & got rid of him!" Why would you even consider taking someone like this back??? Is this the way you want to be treated in a relationship? By taking him back, you're saying that you aren't worthy of being treated with dignity & respect, so why should he if you don't require him to? You need to embrace the good sense the good Lord gave you & move on! You deserve a real man!
Answer by ghostwriter777 at 2:26 PM on Jul. 19, 2010
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Answer by mommy11260 at 2:34 PM on Jul. 19, 2010