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21 weeks. still don't feel it move. normal?

one every couple days i'll feel my bladder like shift or spasm real fast.
could that be it?

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Asked by kyliemichelle04 at 3:27 PM on Jul. 19, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • It could take up to 24 weeks before you feel the flutters! =)

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:28 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • Have you seen that show I didn't know I was pregnant? Some of those women said they never felt the baby move!!! I think it's a little unusual, but you can always ask the doc at your next visit about it.

    Answer by mommymela87 at 3:32 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • Yep..thats normal. Its different for every person.
    It depends on the size of you..the size of the baby..if you've got a really active baby or a sleepy one.
    Be happy if you have a gentle one because mine thinks he's trying to kick a football over the goal in there! LOL
    And I would say yes..those feelings that you are getting may be the baby. :)

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 3:33 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • LOL! I'm so terrified it's going to hurt really bad when I get into my third trimester. I can't imagine something kicking me in the back and ribs. :X

    Comment by kyliemichelle04 (original poster) at 3:41 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

  • If it's your first it can take longer for you to feel your baby since you don't know what to exactly feel for. But trust me you'll eventually feel your baby move around like crazy!


    Answer by cynprz at 3:52 PM on Jul. 19, 2010

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