NO,i disagree with Ewadun. I experience this same thing in my relationship, but i have been with him for almost 9 yrs and also dated in high school. so we have a long history together. 2 b honest with you, i think u should look for a book called " i hate you! Dont leave me." and it will give you a better understanding of yourself. its small but im sure u will find yourself understanding yourself alot more about the way you feel. In short, its a feeling i dont think u can help. Sometimes, some ppl are hard to please due to alot of insecurities, phobias, etc. We love with our hearts of gold, but get hurt very easy and retreat into seclusion and believe we dont need anyone. We have a deep desire to be loved, but we dont know what real love is. I questioned my relationship for a long time. still do. i love him to death, but alot of times i just hate him. but i cant see myself w/o him. its hard to deal w. please read the book.
at 12:56 AM on Jul. 20, 2010