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Would you rather have the perfect wedding or the perfect birth?

If you could control one to go exactly how you wanted it, which would you pick? (Assuming of course that both the non-perfect wedding and birth ended up with everyone happy and healthy in the end even though they weren't perfect).


Asked by FatGirl239 at 11:58 AM on Jul. 20, 2010 in

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  • Perfect birth. There are no health risks (under normal circumstances) in a wedding. Plus looking back on my wedding day the little quirks are funny now.

    Answer by FuzNet at 12:00 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • My wedding was anything but perfect, but that is why it was so memorable. I would rather have the perfect birth. My wedding was beautiful and I enjoyed every minute of it, but there were mishaps the whole day and it was great. the birth of my DD was anything but perfect as well, but I think if I had my choice I would have the perfect birth.....I wouldn't have to be induced i would go into labor naturally and have a smooth labor and delivery. I was induced had no choice in how things were done and had one fumble after another throught the whole process. I would have loved to be able to plan the whole thing from start to finsh just like a storybook. Although the end result was all that matters. I have a happy healthy little girl.

    Answer by melliesmom1207 at 12:03 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • perfect birth....

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 12:02 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Definitely perfect birth.

    Answer by KJohnson4762 at 12:03 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • birth of course

    Answer by justgrape723 at 12:04 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Birth

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Birth

    Answer by mamaofficer at 12:06 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • birth

    Answer by Mommy31107 at 12:39 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Both! lol

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 12:02 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Wedding! You dream about your wedding for YEARS and have pictures and video and hundreds of people with memories of that day... Birth on the other hand, it's just you and even the worst pain and complications are forgotten by the time you are pregnant again!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 12:54 PM on Jul. 20, 2010