Ok, I have an SO whom I've been with for a year, but things just aren't working. They aren't working because I am in love with my ex husband still. My SO obviously doesn't know this and I didn't at first either. People have been suggesting that I go back to my ex and make things work, we only divorced because I got scared and ran away. (I was young)
I also love my SO and we live together, have been building a life together. If I leave my SO I will be heartbroken. If I go back to my Ex, i will be with someone I also love, but i'm not sure that will work out either (I've never been fond of going backwards). My ex does want me back. So, either way, i'm heart broken, no matter who I am with. What in gods name am I supposed to do at this point? Its not fair to my SO to have someone who is holding back...
Asked by Anonymous at 3:16 PM on Jul. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:18 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
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Answer by SAHMomOf3 at 4:02 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
I agree with the other ladies. You have a lot of work to do on yourself before you can make a commitment to either guy. Think about taking some time for yourself without a relationship to distract you and figure out what it is that you want in life that way you aren't hurting anyone while you figure it out. Good Luck to you.
Answer by cowboysgirl3227 at 4:09 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
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Answer by FatGirl239 at 12:30 PM on Jul. 21, 2010