i'm sixteen andi already have my daughter she is one years old., and i'm pregnant again!
but i'm wondering if giving a baby to adoption is that bad? because it's something you will have in your mind forever right?
and i'm just wondering what my baby would say when he or her became a young man or young woman, would he think i didn't love him enought? because if i stayed with one of my child, this baby will think i reject him or her?
My family have enough money, but my mom won't help me.. i think for her i'm not her daughter since i got pregnant for the first time!
It's hard to take care of one child but two is harder right?
I don't know what to do. i can't do an abortion because i don't believe i have the power to take any child life, and because i'm already 4 months pregnant that's what my doctor told me, i thought i had sex 5 months ago but i guess it was 4 months it seems like i long time. But that doesn't matter anyway!
Answer by staralfur at 3:31 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by Erin814 at 3:33 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by MyIslandGirls at 3:36 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by delilahsmom1177 at 3:41 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by Southernroots at 4:03 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
I'm a birth mom. It's true Adoptees often have low self esteem and abandonment issues. The prevailing thought is that birth mothers didn't want their children. When the adoptee has an older sibling or one born very soon after them they often wonder what it was about them that birth mom didn't love.
visit the birth moms group: http://www.cafemom.com/group/4974/forums/4974/General_Discussion you can see what birth moms young and old have to say about it.
Answer by onethentwins at 4:05 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by Southernroots at 4:17 PM on Jul. 20, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 6:07 PM on Jul. 20, 2010