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Oral sex? adult content

My husband always wants to be the RECIPIENT of oral sex. If I ask for it, he will say let's 69 (in which he is still getting pleased). I want to be selfish for once and be the recipient. He does enjoy it one he starts but, how can I get him to go down more often without complaining or giving me a lame excuse?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:05 PM on Jul. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • refues to give him anyif he refuses u! its 50/50 hon

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 11:07 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • I would tell him that if he expects to get it, he has to give it. So unless he starts giving it without strings, then he only gets it when he is giving it. No more BJ without repayment.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 11:07 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Sit on his face (not litterly). Mine likes it, maby your will to- then he can't have you please him at the same time

    Answer by lovmyhubby at 11:09 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • if you don't get any, don't give him any.
    I personally find 69 uncomfortable so don't enjoy doing it.

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 11:13 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • I don't ever give it up unless he does first. But, mine is almost addicted to it and the taste so no worries here.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 11:15 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Refuse to give him oral

    Answer by Decker at 11:17 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • At least you get 69. My SO only receives and won't give

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:24 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • just talk to him about it.

    Answer by xkrystals.momx at 11:27 PM on Jul. 20, 2010

  • Promise some bad girl sex while he is doing it. Talk to him about how much you want to do the bad things he loves.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 12:04 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Tell him how much more turned on you are when you can just relax and enjoy receiving oral. Witholding is never a good idea. Give him an ego boost instead by telling him now great it feels.

    Answer by yezay at 9:09 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

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