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How should I encourage my DH to talk about his sexual fantasies.

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Asked by A11 at 5:27 AM on Jul. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i think the best time to bring these out in the open is while having sex.
    youre in the moment and when youre REALLLYYY in the moment you do crazy things (usually what you truthfully want deep inside but may be apprehensive to say any other time)

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 5:38 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Yes!! It is a good thing to know what our loving partners think when in the mood.

    Answer by miklu at 6:13 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • lol sorry but the only thing i can think of is he's a guy - you have to ask??

    Answer by figaro8895 at 6:30 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • I would talk to your husband and tell him that you would like to know what fantasies he has about sex. It might also help for you to share some of your fantasies with him. With men it is often best to be very direct.

    Answer by amandajoy21 at 6:34 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Have a few drinks with him, then ask! ;-)

    Answer by mommymela87 at 7:59 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Take him to a hotel when you are there tell him all of your fantasies and act on a few then tell him it's his turn to reveal his and act on at least one of them.

    Answer by togo90210 at 8:30 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Ask him and share some of your own to make him feel comfortable

    Answer by SexyLala at 8:32 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • i hope for you that if and when he tells you, that they are normal ideas and not sick and gross

    **careful what you wish for**

    Answer by fiatpax at 8:41 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Tell him one of your's and ask him about one of his

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:59 AM on Jul. 21, 2010

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