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Is it just me ..

Or does it feel like sometimes when when you even ask a question on here you feel a little judged?

Maybe just me... Perhaps maybe I'm just stressed.
Maybe I just want to know things and not have others act as if they are better.
Like they are stronger as a parent.
Makes me upset a bit ....


Asked by Anonymous at 1:58 PM on Jul. 21, 2010 in About CafeMom

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Answers (7)
  • if you're already stressed or angry or upset or nervous, its easy to think someone else has it all together. they don't. they just aren't in your shoes, having to deal with whatever the problem is. take it all in stride, OP. some people will always act like they are super-moms..they're just super-annoying.little flower


    Answer by dullscissors at 2:02 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • I do sometimes to, especially when I am already upset.

    Answer by Decker at 1:59 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • I can't say I have ever let someone's questioning of my parenting bother me... Nor should you. If you're doing what you see as right, then why does someone elses thinking matter?

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 1:59 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • It is much easier to point out what the right thing to do is, and a much harder thing to actually DO the right thing. You may feel like your being judged but just know that it is easier to answer a question than it is to live the issue.

    Answer by sahlady at 2:01 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • It's not just you, lol.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 2:05 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • Trust me even the strongest women and the best mom's have they're break down...don't let them fool you. No ones life is perfect everyone has personal battles.
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    Answer by geminisummerz at 2:10 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

  • You are 100% correct. You should not be bothered by the comments of strangers, though..

    Answer by rkoloms at 2:14 PM on Jul. 21, 2010

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