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What do you think is better: premarital sex or premarital abstinence?

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35yoamom

Asked by 35yoamom at 10:36 PM on Jul. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Of course it is a better thing if you can hold out and not have sex before marriage....but I have never been strong enough to tell the man I love no to sex.
    Cochise

    Answer by Cochise at 10:37 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Premarital sex, if it wasn't for that I wouldn't be able to how my husband all my nice tricks ;)
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:42 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Waiting till marriage would be best but......lol.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 10:42 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • I think if you are smart about it and could vision spending your life connected to the person should the BC fail, then I'm all for sex before marriage. It's too emotional for me to sleep with a lot of people. I would get too connected. A one night stand is not for me! But that doesn't mean I wouldn't have sex with someone I love. I did and married him two years later. :-)
    Kiwismommy19

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 10:43 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • do you buy shoes without trying them on first?
    DMac08

    Answer by DMac08 at 10:51 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • People arent shoes. You dont catch HIV from shoes...
    35yoamom

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 10:55 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Abstinence. You never know what a person could pass on to you. I wonder how many people actually had their S/O checked for STDs before having sex with them. I did. :)
    matthewscandi

    Answer by matthewscandi at 11:01 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • premarital sex..you have to know what you are getting yourself into & if you are going to be satisfied with it...heehee
    jmfire14

    Answer by jmfire14 at 11:40 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • sex. at the right time of course and with protection.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:55 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Abstinence
    soccerchik8287

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 12:22 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

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