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What do you think is better: premarital sex or premarital abstinence?

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Asked by 35yoamom at 10:36 PM on Jul. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Of course it is a better thing if you can hold out and not have sex before marriage....but I have never been strong enough to tell the man I love no to sex.

    Answer by Cochise at 10:37 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Premarital sex, if it wasn't for that I wouldn't be able to how my husband all my nice tricks ;)

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:42 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Waiting till marriage would be best

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 10:42 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • I think if you are smart about it and could vision spending your life connected to the person should the BC fail, then I'm all for sex before marriage. It's too emotional for me to sleep with a lot of people. I would get too connected. A one night stand is not for me! But that doesn't mean I wouldn't have sex with someone I love. I did and married him two years later. :-)

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 10:43 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • do you buy shoes without trying them on first?

    Answer by DMac08 at 10:51 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • People arent shoes. You dont catch HIV from shoes...

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 10:55 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Abstinence. You never know what a person could pass on to you. I wonder how many people actually had their S/O checked for STDs before having sex with them. I did. :)

    Answer by matthewscandi at 11:01 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • premarital have to know what you are getting yourself into & if you are going to be satisfied with it...heehee

    Answer by jmfire14 at 11:40 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • sex. at the right time of course and with protection.

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:55 PM on Jul. 22, 2010

  • Abstinence

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 12:22 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

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