I'm married to a good guy. I don't think we ever really knew one another tho. he is willing, I try but lately,,,I found out my ex is going thru a divorce.
SO he is on my mind a lot.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:59 AM on Jul. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Precious333 at 1:32 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
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Answer by Ashlynnsmommy07 at 1:57 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
Sometimes when things are going bad in a relationship, we look for any excuse to get out of it, instead of trying harder to make it work. I think that's what's going on here. You are having problems in your marriage, and your ex is getting divorced, so you are trying to convince yourself that this is fate, and it's really not. It's just a coincidence that his marriage fell apart, at the same time yours is having some trouble. You have to ask yourself, why you and your ex didn't get married. Surely there was a reason you broke up. The main reason being, it wasn't meant to be. Instead of looking at this like it might be a second chance, look at it like it's a glance into the future if you don't focus on your marriage, and try to make it work with everything you have. If you and your husband love each other, then give it all you have got to give. Don't throw it all away on the past.
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