I think it's not fair that i get up at 5 am in the morning to get ready and get the kids ready. And I have to fight everyday to get some help from my kids father. He doesn't work so he should have no problem to help me. I get so angry when I'm tried and I see him all cuddled up sleeping. When I'm running around like a chicken with he's head cut off. And everyday I have to fight and leave the house and head to work angry.. And late bc I have to drop the kids off at different daycares. While hes at home living the easy life. Boy that would be greatAnswer Question
Answer by dullscissors at 9:44 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
Answer by dmdblleb at 9:47 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
Answer by Alejandra10 at 9:48 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
Answer by Pnukey at 10:16 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
If the house is in your name only then I would give him an ultimatum-- I would tell him he has XX days to get off his deadbeat ass and start parenting his kids, and get a job or he is out the door! He is a grown man, there is no excuse for him to laze around all day while you do it all and pay for everything. I would not let him give you the 'guilt trip' about him not having anyplace to go-- that is his problem. Then if he does not follow thru and get his act together within your time frame kick him out , or have the police come and remove him. If the house is in his name, then I would pack up the kids and leave him. I hope it all works out-- good luck!
Answer by MizLee at 10:18 AM on Jul. 23, 2010