We are getting a divorce, but will wait until I have money saved to do so (probably within the next year or so). Our plans before all of this came out were to move to my home state because thats where all of my family is. We are still going to do that, but will obviously live in separate houses. He is a great dad and would never abandon his children. (5 and 7) but being pregnant would have been very stressful.
He told me that he has been gay for awhile, but married a woman in hoped that it would "go away" I know he is deeply sorry and I am not angry. Am I hurt, yes, but I have forgiven him and will get on with my life as will he.
For right now, we will continue to live together until the move and I have enough money saved to feel secure. This is the best thing for us. In the meantime, I am trying to re-gain my independence. I have lost sight of who I am in the past 11 years of marriage and I'm getting ME back! Wish me luck!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:26 AM on Jul. 23, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by CarlaH20 at 11:10 AM on Jul. 23, 2010
Why split? He's a good provider, a good father to his kids, why throw that away? Why not consider an open marriage? Both of you can then find those to fulfill your lifes without sacrificing the family unit.
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