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If your husband told u one day he was gay would u stay?

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mamaofficer

Asked by mamaofficer at 10:28 AM on Jul. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No. I would stay nice because he's a good dad, but if he came up gay one day, we'd get a divorce in a heart beat.
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:29 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • For me no I wouldn't want a man that could suck better than me. That's just how I feel about this situation.
    mamaofficer

    Comment by mamaofficer (original poster) at 10:29 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • doubt it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:30 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • I will speak hypothetically because I could never see this happening. My answer is no, I wouldn't, we would remain friends, but I wouldn't be able to stay.
    buzymamaof3

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 10:30 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • No freaking way! I would want a man that actually enjoys sex with me, and doesnt think of men sexually. I think "sticking it out for the kids" would actually just damage them...
    ABusyBee

    Answer by ABusyBee at 10:30 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • Sure wouldn't.. I want to be with someone who loves me and wants to have sex with me & only me.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:31 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • well, mine is bi. If he went totally gay, I wouldn't be like disgusted if he stayed, but I wouldn't be crushed if he left. I'd want him to do what was best for him. I've always told him that if he needs to "do something" with a guy, then he can since I lack the equipment to please him in that way.
    DarkFaery131

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 10:31 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • LMAO mamaofficer! "For me no I wouldn't want a man that could suck better than me. That's just how I feel about this situation. "

    DarkFaery131

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 10:32 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • Why on earth would either of us want to stay? I would be crushed initiallly, but I would forgive him and we would continue a friendship and raise our children, but we wouldn't stay at husband and wife.
    gramsmom

    Answer by gramsmom at 10:35 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • Probably, I'm not big on sex anyway and he brings in the money. LOL
    itsmesteph11

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 10:36 AM on Jul. 23, 2010

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