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Could you do without sex and be okay with it?

I do love my husband.But we have been together for a long time.Sex is way more important to him than me.I am okay without it, and would be okay if it stopped completely.Am I the only one?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 PM on Jul. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I used to be like that. I could either take or leave it, it didn't matter. I've come to love it almost as much as him now. :-)
    If we go a few days without, we both get bitchy.

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 1:06 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • honestly yes I could. I only do it to appease hubby.
    I am pretty sure it's just my body agreeing with my head that I am done having kids. I see it as my body knowing that too, so no sex drive since sex is for making babies.

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 1:07 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • No I could make it maybe a month before I went nuts I love sex with my husband, but your not alone that is for sure.

    Answer by Fordmomma at 1:07 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • Hell no

    Answer by Halogurl29 at 1:07 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • Nope not the only one I could really leave it but he couldn't so there you have it my life story LOL!!

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 1:08 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • I couldn't go completely without it.. if its been a week or so we are both quite irritable!

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:11 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • I'm living w/o right now but I'd like some every now and then. He's the one who's always tired! I really have no sex drive but it's pleasurably when I get it. Sad, I know.

    Answer by JenE1098 at 1:14 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • No I would not be ok with it. I think I am worst than a guy... but I am still a good girl... I just take it out on one

    Answer by Cochise at 1:16 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • If I had it my way..I would do it every day... a few times a day would be fine by me (:

    Answer by Cochise at 1:16 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

  • After 17 years, I go without a lot of things....

    Answer by WoodWitch at 1:17 PM on Jul. 23, 2010

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