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Is it safe to start dating again or should I wait till it's all said and done?

I have been separated from my husband for over a year now and the divorce is kinda going slow. I have met someone and would like to date this person. is it ok to go on and date again or should i wait for the divorce to be final?

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Asked by Fluffy0106 at 1:47 AM on Jul. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Me personally, I would wait until the divorce is final.

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 1:50 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • My advice would be to wait, just so that he doesn't have anything to use against you if he decides to get nasty. I know that may be hard though. My "inexperienced" advice would be that the right guy will wait ;) Best of luck.

    Answer by AshleyBDG at 1:51 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • I dated before the divorce was final. My ex was in fact, already engaged.

    Answer by m-avi at 1:56 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • I would wait

    Answer by Lizygoinghooray at 2:28 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • i would wait till its final

    Answer by christina10140 at 3:27 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • I would wait too.

    Answer by Cassandre at 9:46 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • If you've filed for divorce, legally its fine to date (so said my lawyer). If I were you I'd date. I waited for mine to be final, but it didn't take that long.

    Answer by soccerchik8287 at 10:00 AM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Never kknew it took that long for a divorce!! A year is a long time in limbo! Personally would not wait much longer.

    Answer by danielle0911 at 1:55 AM on Jul. 27, 2010

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