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How often do you and your DH /SO make love since the children?

before my daughter - twice a week - now twice a month.

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Asked by emilysmom1966 at 4:59 PM on Jul. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Before my kids 5-7 times a week
    Afterward 2-3 times a week

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 5:00 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Now, it's usually a few times a week, maybe more.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 5:01 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • hopefully tonight. I'm getting antsy.

    Answer by lovinangels at 5:01 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Wait till you are old. My last child moved away on the first of July. I've been getting it every day since! OMG if I had known that I would get it everyday I would have encouraged her to move years ago!

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:02 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Before - at LEAST 2-3 times a day...
    Now - usually 1-2 every 6-8 weeks...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 5:02 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • We average 5x a week.

    We made an agreement many years ago, that we never go more than 2 days without. Unless some unforseen circumstances beyond our control come up and we are unable to.

    At one point and time (over 15 yrs ago) we let our sex life fade away. It caused us all kinds of problems. For us, we learned that a mutually happy, satisfying, and fulfilling sex life is very important to our relationship, how we connect with one another, how we interact with one another, and even how we view one another and treat one another. We both get grumpy, feel unwanted, feel unloved, and feel resentful, and feel disconnected from one another when we allow our sex life to wain.

    Each couple is different in regards to how sex is for them, and what it's role is in their relationship.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:03 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • boy , I'm doing somthing wrong!!!

    Comment by emilysmom1966 (original poster) at 5:04 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Before we had kids we did it 1-3 times a day. Now it depends, some weeks we do it 8or 9 times and some we only do it 1 or 2 times.

    It really depends on what we have going on. On the weeks we don't do it much, we connect in other ways. We have a great relationship and I think it has a lot to do with working to please the other.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:05 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • After: 5 times a week
    Before: 3 times a week LOL

    Answer by BlueballandKids at 5:09 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

  • Before kids every day,now twice a week.

    Answer by mamaofficer at 5:10 PM on Jul. 24, 2010

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